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Aussies have revealed they have an extensive bucket list of sexual fantasies!

It’s official, the results of Adult Match Maker's first sex study exploring the sexual habits of Aussies have been released! Not surprisingly, kinky sex is a popular fantasy for everyone with 60% of respondents telling us that it’s included in their sexual fantasies. Fifty Shades of Grey might have made us all think about kink but kink isn’t only about BDSM and only about half of the kinky people are into BDSM. Heterosexual men seem to be less into BDSM than anyone else so girls, if you want your boyfriend to spank you with the hairbrush, you might have to ask. We know from recent research that sexual activity is on the decline, but the good news is as the frequency of overall sexual encounters diminishes the range of sexual pleasures for the sexually active is in fact opening up. In summary, sexually active Australians are adventurous, have an extensive sexual fantasy bucket list and don’t mind a little kink in the mix.

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Sydney Hellfire Club's 26th Birthday Bash! On Friday, 22 March 2019 9:30pm. It's our birthday and its our biggest and bestest night of the year! Since opening the dungeon doors in March 1993 The Hellfire Club has blown minds and awoken dark desires for soooo many people. We welcome all ages, all shapes, all sizes, all sexualities, all points on the gender scale - there is nowhere more diverse, more accepting, more embracing and more welcoming. The dress code might be kinky but the crowd is always friendly and it’s a respectful girl & transgender friendly environment. Each month we showcase the sexiest, most twisted artistes in sensuous shows that explore the erotic, the exotic and the taboo. We always have a full deck of deviant DJs to amaze, astound and arouse you and keep you hot and sweaty til home time. Join us to share our mutual love of fetish fashion and the decadent displays of delicious diversity.
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Hellfire Club QLD Submission - Brisbane On Saturday, 23 March 2019 8pm. The Hellfire Club QLD are bringing you a night to celebrate submission in all its forms. We look up to those who kneel, those who serve, those who need to be restrained in order to let go. Subs, bottoms, slaves and those who don't have a name for it but know they like it a little rougher than others. Hellfire Club is Brisbane's premier fetish club. This kinky fetish Club caters for a colourful crowd of fetishists, TV, trans, drag queens, sexual deviants, perverts, hedonists on a monthly basis for the last 25 years in Brisbane. Our fetish event nights are an opportunity to dress to excess. A night for the delight of the senses. It's a club full of delicious delights and torture. A night for the delight of the senses. It's a club full of delicious delights and torture. A bit more than 50 Shades of Grey. Hellfire Club is a guaranteed great night out it’s renowned as being the friendliest fetish club.
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Curiosity - workshop for new people - Melbourne On Saturday, 23 March 2019 1pm. Curiosity is a sexuality event like no other. We wondered if it would be possible to create a play-party built around consent, communication, community, safety, inclusivity, and self-development. It turns out to not just be possible. It's extraordinary, it's changing lives, and there's nothing like it anywhere in the world. It's not for everyone - click through to our website to see if it's right for you. Curiosity is a very unusual exploration of sexuality, self-development, and liberation. It is an experiment in community and self-development that uses sexuality as a starting point. It is a combined workshop and play-party. The workshop drills deeply into crucial information about how to enjoy yourself, how to do consent to the level we need, and how to recognise and assert your boundaries. You can then do the play-party as often as you like, and since the only people at the party are people that have done the workshop, we’re all on exactly the same page around expectations and standards.
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Girls Just Wanna - Women Only BDSM Play Party - Sydney On Saturday, 23 March 2019 9pm. For a night to empower all that identify as female to have some fun in a safe space! This month's workshop is Sex Toys show and tell so feel free to bring your favourite toys if you are happy to share your experiences and we will discuss types, cleaning, safety and what can be used together and how to keep them. We will have allowance for questions and discussion. The play areas are open the whole night so you can choose what you want to do to have a great night. We have an inclusive and embracing view of gender identity and sexuality, if you have any questions please get in touch with us. Sanctuary offers a safe, embracing and fun place to explore your sensual and sexual nature and help facilitate your kinks. Come and play and socialise with like minds. Allow yourself to let go and explore ...
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Fundamental Rope Bondage - Melbourne On Sunday, 24 March 2019 1pm. Restraint play is as dynamic and diverse as the fabulous people who experiment with it. Exploring different techniques and styles can be wildly rewarding. This introductory course focuses specifically on rope bondage. Safety, etiquette and basic techniques are clearly addressed in an uncomplicated manner so that students gain a confident foundation from which to develop and cultivate their own style and relationship to bondage. Instruction is conducted in a friendly and playful environment. No student will be harshly judged or pushed beyond their comfort zone, and safe practices will be vigilantly enforced. No prior experience with tying, bondage or kinky exploration is required.
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Saints & Sinners Ball - Melbourne On Friday, 29 March 2019 8:30pm. Saints & Sinners Ball invites you to their "Dirty Disney & Fractured Fairytales" theme where we're pretty sure you'll find out that Snow White isn't as pure as she claims. Expect to see Alice in Kinkland, dominatrix Queen of Hearts, Pussy in Boots, foot fetishist Prince Charming, Rapunzel with her golden locks (and not much else) and of course, the very sexy Jessica Rabbit. Victorian law allows Saints & Sinners Ball to be much raunchier than interstate parties. There will be open areas with swinging couples & women socialising, dancing, flirting or fondling and there are always lots of discreet corners for some quiet time with your partner ... or others. Just about anything goes and probably will! Isn't it time you crossed this off your swinging bucket list! Join us in Melbourne for a fairytale with a very erotic twist.
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Whiplash Gippsland - Dracula and the night of the Vampires On Friday, 29 March 2019 8pm. Whiplash Gippsland – Resurrection brings you a night to remember when Dracula, his lovely Vampires and Zombies descend on sleepy Moe. Come out, come out where ever you are and indulge in a night of fantasy and kink. It is a night to let your inner evil self come to the fore and join us in horror, blood and bondage. Come dressed in costume or in fetish or basic black – anyone not dressed for kink will be locked in our cage for 10 minutes and subjected to all sorts of vile treatment !!! Our new escape proof cage will be back in action after being repaired – yup the door fell off the hinges!!! What vile creature was trapped inside that had such strength as to break out. Try your luck and see if you can escape. Plus over $250 in great prizes from Lucrezia and De Sade and Eagle Leather and Adult Matchmaker. Let out your inner beast, dress up, have fun, have a play and meet new weird people – just like yourself . Bring a friend, the more the merrier and the better the atmosphere and the more play opportunities - remember it is Your club, so please come along and support it.
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The Dragons Den - Masquerade Enigma On Saturday, 30 March 2019 7pm. Have you ever fantasised about the mystery of masks, the not knowing, the excitement of a concealed identity, always wondering who it could be behind the Facade. This is your opportunity to create your fantasy to create a mystery behind the mask. Come out to play wearing your mask of choice. Fun, Mysterious, Cheeky, Sassy or the one that just does it for you, the choice is yours. Whether you are new to the scene or an experienced soul you will enjoy the ambience and comfort we create at our events, we believe its about feeling welcome and accepted & taking a chance to meet others who are likeminded. Our intimate styled space creates a feel, one that will make u feel at home in the environment we create Where you can relax and just be free to be you! For those who have yet to experience Dragon Den's play space we offer 6 play areas downstairs and additional play spaces and social areas upstairs.
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Tantra of Rope Bondage - Melbourne On Saturday, 30 March 2019 1pm. ‘The Tantra of Rope Bondage’ demystifies the deeply personal art form of intuitive rope play. It teaches the foundational skills and perspectives from which rich and genuine human intimacy and magical creative fluency flow. Many people imagine it's possible to explore amazing connections in rope play, yet believe it's something ‘only other people can do’. The aim of this workshop is to teach anyone drawn to this approach that Tantra can be a natural and simple style of intimacy, not just a complex and esoteric discipline for hippies and yogis. Basic prior experience with bondage is useful but not required to attend this workshop. Couples & singles are welcome to attend.
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Fire & Ice Uniform - Canberra On Saturday, 30 March 2019 8pm. Fire & Ice is back for 2019 and to get the party started we are bringing out the uniforms! Uniforms is your chance to live, breathe, experience your uniform fetish. Uniforms can be anything from the naughty school girl teasing the HeadMaster, the nympho nurse, military, prisoner, French maid, police officer – you name it! Fire & Ice is Canberra’s only public BDSM party. Our play parties are for open minded kinksters and non-kinksters (‘nillas) alike, to indulge secret fantasies, release pent up frustrations of day to day life or relish in the power exchange that can be found in BDSM. Fire & Ice is a night where you can enjoy an alternative play space in a safe, relaxed environment. Tickets for Fire & Ice are limited and they sell out quickly.
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Sanctified Vikings “Golden Horn” - Sydney On Friday, 05 April 2019 9pm. This month’s theme for Sanctified is Vikings. That's right we want all the fur and leather to come out. Bring your mead and drinking horns and enjoy this celebration of an amazing culture that was kinky before the word was created. Sanctuary offers a safe and fun place to explore your fetish and kink, play and socialise. Performances at 11pm by Raven-X and Thymian Glass Butterfly and Shamania Our experienced Dungeon Monitors and staff are always on hand for any questions or help that you may need! Allow yourself to let go and explore…
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Angels & Demons - Sydney On Friday, 12 April 2019 9pm. Step into the erotic, sexually charged world that is Angels & Demons and unleash your desires. Angels & Demons is the biggest monthly night at The Couples Club. It's wall to wall eye candy with couples looking for like-minded couples and keen to explore. Angels & Demons seduces the mind with sensual couples dressing in their sexiest erotic outfit and meeting other like minded couples … the sexy play is only limited by your imagination. The venue is eclectic and decadent and the perfect place to unleash your desires with subtle lighting, cosy corners and fantastic music. You can mingle with other sexy like minded couples and drink, dance and flirt on the Night Club Level. If you are more adventurous and move to the Fantasy Level there is the option to play. The mix is always good with lots of attractive couples, and when the action goes down it does so with a Bang. Entry for couples in theme is $100 if you arrive before 10pm.
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Fetish Markets - Annandale On Sunday, 14 April 2019 12pm. Sanctuary invite you to indulge your fetish or perhaps just your shopping fetish and join them for their Fetish Markets. Entry is free and it’s a fabulous afternoon of fetish bargains and kinky socialising. Three floors full of stallholders selling their quality handmade leather goods, alternative clothing, jewellery, rope, accessories, cosmetics, artwork and much more… The markets are open until 5pm and EFTPOS is available at some, but not all the stalls. Our inhouse café is the perfect place to grab a coffee or catch up with new or old friends. This is an 18+ event so leave the kids at home and indulge in some adult shopping. We’re close to public transport and there is plenty of street parking. If you need space in your wardrobe for more fetish finery then you can have your own stall! If you’d be interested in becoming a once-off or regular stallholder please make contact with us.
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Provocation - Melbourne On Friday, 19 April 2019 9pm. Provocation invites you to a night of kinky fun for like minded people who want to play. Provocation is a kink club that is brimming with good vibes, unpretentious characters and genuine old-skool dj talent. We have something special for you, somewhere that you can play unrestricted. A venue that you can explore that is filled with nooks and crannies that will be overloaded with equipment so that everyone can play. You can even dance with a sexy intimate dance floor.
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Threshold - Sydney On Saturday, 20 April 2019 9pm. Every 3rd Saturday of the month, Threshold will be a sexy, kinky haven at Sanctuary! Bring your friends, lovers, partners and pets (humanimals of course!) Infamous in the early 90's for breaking ground in Sydney's fetish scene, pioneers of the warehouse play party down under, we fused that trail blazing spirit with new blood for the 21st century and have continued to provide a sanctuary for kinksters since returning in 2015 with the magic that made it so cutting edge. It doesn’t matter how you identify, your gender or your orientation; Threshold is a party where you can explore and play in a safe, sane and consensual environment. There are plenty of options available to you at Threshold including St Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, a sling, multiple suspension points, and a medical area. Immerse yourself in our kinky underground wonderland and experience Threshold for yourself!
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Kink 101: A beginners guide to kink - Melbourne On Saturday, 25 May 2019 10am. 'Kink’ (noun): A sharp twist or curve in something that is otherwise straight. If you’re curious about kinky stuff, or you’ve played a little bit but want a more solid foundation, then this space is for you. This workshop will provide you with the knowledge and attitude you need to pursue kink safely, at your own pace, while giving you a feel for what is possible. It will present information in a way that is positive, accessible, fun, and empowering. You don't need any background knowledge or experience. Subject material is approached with a sense of humour and a deep respect for getting the fundamentals correct first. There are three versions of this workshop. The content is identical, but the way that you are paired for exercises varies. The workshop is for couples & singles [MF pairings].
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